Improving... Leaps and Bounds

I still remember the day I met him.  He was under the table I was sitting at when the words "he doesn't like feet" were said.  I was trying to get him to take treats and he refused. He was so far over threshold all he could do was bark at me.  When his owner stood up to move towards his room he backed up into her and continued barked at me.  He clearly wasn't comfortable with me being in his home. 

Honestly,  at that point I wasn't comfortable with him either.  He made me nervous but I felt such a strong conviction to help him. Watching him was like watching a child who was conflicted beyond help. 

We set out on helping him learn to make better decisions in life.  When he wanted left alone,  we taught him to retreat to his room.  When he was upset,  we taught him his room was comfort and safety.  Most of all,  we made his world extremely small.  His family,  Kayla and I interacting with him. 

He lived with two other dogs and one of the other dogs were bullying him.  He was found as a stray and the animal control officer wasn't able to catch him so a rescue came out and picked him up.  Loud noises set him off on barking fits and fast movement of hands and feet cause his fear to rage out of control.

We started teaching the family the most important part. We showed them exactly what they were seeing when he reacted badly to things. We had a couple touch and go moments but this summer we saw something amazing happen.

The family adopted a fourth dog and we normally tell families to not adopt another when they have a dog who has such emotional baggage. In this case,  it worked the opposite.  The new addition is a beautiful pit bull.  She's a sweet and very amazing girl. 

While the family was on a trip to Arizona for 11 days we cared for the dogs in their home.  We knew boarding was out as our problem dog resource guarded,  the bullying dog became an emotional wreck without his family and the other two kept having scraps with each other.  We were their best option. So,  we packed our bags and hung out with their dogs for 11 days.

The dog who had been bullying had a hard time with it.  He whined a lot and we tried to engage him every chance we got.  The fearful dog suddenly started politely asking for attention. I would sit on the couch and he would hop up near me and lay down. He would rub his head against my hand and would run around the yard with their pit bull.

Fast forward to two weeks ago.  I was stopping to let the dogs out and sat down on the couch.  He came running and jumped on the couch and just sprawled across my legs.  My first reaction was to not move but he was wiggling against my hand so I softly petted his side.  Today,  I let them out and again he asked for attention. This time,  I was in his room. I fed him treats while he gently rubbed his side against my hand.  I offered treats while I sat in his room and softly touched his legs and rubbed his rear. 

With his fear this was huge.  We've come so far and I am so proud of his family who have worked tirelessly with him.  He has become my favorite part of my day when I get to see him.  He has such a great loose body wiggle for me. Compared to that scared dog who backed up into his owner and just barked for me to leave is huge. 

We have built this relationship on trust and reinforce of the good things and even more reinforce of the bad things in life.  Touching my hand resulted in jackpots of treats. Removing himself to his room got him treats.  His safe room in the house has become his place to relax and unwind.  He is the only dog in that room although today I didn't close the gate and his best friend,  that same pit bull, was giving him licks on the mouth to soothe him as I was touching him and giving treats.

Two years and a lot of love and positive interactions with a very small world has brought us to this day.  And now it's time to start making that tiny world slightly larger.  We go at his pace though and we never force his interaction.

And if need be we have "his pit bull" there to help him through it.  He's a good boy and his family has been one of the most amazing families I have ever met.

    

World Trainer's Transparency Challenge

It's been a while! Things have been super busy with us getting the building ready, but I have something that I feel is super important to share.

I'm part of the World Trainer's Transparency Challenge. Now, you may wonder just what the heck that is, so let me give you some information. The challenge was created by Jean Donaldson. In an attempt to make the dog training consumers aware of what we're really saying and to make it dog owner friendly, she gave us three questions to answer.

Here is Lili Chin's graphic that showed the questions:

This graphic has been now circulating around Facebook with the captions of "Always ask questions" but the posts are missing the most important part...and that is the answers to the questions. I see so many sharing it who are trainers but there are no answers posted as well.

So, here are my answers and these answers go for everyone here at Peace, Light & Love For Dogs.

1) What exactly will happen to my dog if my dog gets it right?

Depending on if it's a new skill or a skill already known depends on what happens. Your dog may just get a click and a small treat. Your dog may get a click, or YES!, and a party thrown. There will be rewards and those rewards may range from treats, playing a game of tug, a frolic and sniff, playtime with a toy, or some serious lovings. It really depends on what your dog enjoys most. And, we will always work with our clients to find out what motivates them to learn the best.

2) What exactly will happen to my dog if my dog gets it wrong?

Well, nothing will happen TO your dog. We have a strict no punishment rule. We will NEVER hit your dog, harm your dog or punish your dog. We use only kind and humane methods. Now, what will happen is we will stop and try to figure out why your dog isn't "getting it". We will look at several questions: "Are we moving too fast for the dog?" "Is the dog being overloaded with distractions?" "Is there something wrong with the way we're asking the dog to perform the cue?" Simply stated, if your dog isn't getting it, then WE are doing something wrong...not the dog and we want to always set up dogs to succeed so we will work at finding out where it went wrong.

3) Are there less invasive/aversice alternative to what you propose?

We have not found them yet if there is so our answer is "NO!" Now, as our clients always are told, we are always learning more as science and behavior becomes more mainstream so if there is a less invasive way, we will gladly work towards using that!

There you have it. This is our answers for the questions Jean posed to us. We are very happy to take part of this. I feel transparency in everything we do is important. There is no smoke or mirrors, no expensive collar, or some magic to what we do. What we do is simple. We want to work with your dogs capabilities to learn and help enrich the owner/dog bond.

As always, we look forward to seeing your dog and you out and about or even just in your yard. And yes, always ask questions and get references from potential dog trainers before you even let them near your dog!

How can we say goodbye

Today is one of those days where I am reminded that every dog I work with I form an attachment with. Their success is part of me. Their failure is part of me. I fall in love a thousand times.

It has taken a long time but when Greyson lays his head on my leg, looks up at me with those dark eyes and just sighs my heart melts. I've worked long and hard on our bond. It's one of the reasons I use only positive reinforcement now. I love the bond that is formed between dog and dog owner. I relish in seeing an owner know that their dog is truly happy.

I was in the paper last week and the headline in the middle page said "I don't train dogs. I teach owners to work with their dog's capabilities. " It is a phrase I  stand by. I love when an owner checks in and is so excited about what their dog can do and to see the dog happy brings me joy.

In the process I thrive on the interaction with the dog. I love being able to have them eager to work on cue for me and be thrilled to do it. Every time a dog greets me with a wagging tail and happy smile I melt just like I do with Greyson.

I bond as well with our dogs we work with. To have the dog come running at me to sit and get rewarded with even a pat on the head is important to me.

This past summer I held puppy classes. Toby was one of our students.  His owner is the type of student who wants to do it all right. She cooked for Toby. She clicked and treated his good behavior. She checked in routinely and we visited together. Part of our teaching is that we are a lifetime support. We are here to help. Always!

Toby was diagnosed with HGE disease.
( http://www.vcahospitals.com/main/pet-health-information/article/animal-health/hemorrhagic-gastroenteritis-in-dogs/764) Toby was treated and came home. He went back to being normal, silly Toby. This Monday we met at the pet store to discuss him joining a group class as an adult dog. He was skittish of men so we wanted to make sure he was comfortable in the setting. When a man came into view we got his attention and he took treats and was doing well so he was a perfect candidate for group class.

Last night his HGE came back. He had already been at the vet for IV fluids and his owner was doing all the right things still. Today he lost his battle. He passed away and to say I'm sad is an understatement.  I love our client dogs and I take this personally.  To lose a dog so young is heartbreaking. 

Then I start to think of Greyson's mortality. How is that a dog who has had everything possible done to him and had all the wrong treatment AND a shortened life span and he is still here. Life is truly unfair. Tonight I will stay home and curl up with Grey and be thankful for life's little miracles.

This picture is Toby when I visited him. His transformation from goofy puppy, to gangly teenager was an honor to be part of. To say he lived with positive in his life because of me is an honor!